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Apologizes in advance. so this is a relaxation to stop guilt when not busy many people 0:11 find it difficult to relax because they feel guilty when and they're not busy 0:16 the constant pressure to be productive and busy every moment to stress 0:21 but when trying to relax. guilt and restlessness interfere making relaxation 0:28 impossible. this guide in meditation will help to change 0:33 the perspective of needing to be busy all the time. so that you can relax and reduce 0:38 unreasonable demands on yourself. you 0:44 need this time of relaxation. relaxation 0:49 is a basic skills that helps you to survive and be healthy 0:54 close your eyes and take a few moments to just breathe 1:01 breathe slowly and calmly 1:09 focus on this single act of breathing such a simple act 1:15 essential to life. just breathe. 1:21 perhaps you have thoughts right now about the others things you think you should be doing 1:32 acknowledge these thoughts, consider what types of tasks 1:38 activities and demands are going to your mind right now. 1:43 you may even want to go ahead and write down a list of all of things you feel compelled 1:52 to do. focus 1:57 on and acknowledge. the thoughts that come up for you over the next few moments. 2:02 sit quietly now and reflect upon the thoughts that have been coming up. 2:14 do you notice any pattern? allow each thought to pass 2:21 without dwelling on any particular thoughts 2:27 let each thought come and go and notice each thought as an observer 2:32 as you meditates what kind of thoughts and judgments and you had about yourself. 2:43 noticed the should statement the criticisms for judgment thoughts that have 2:51 told you wrongly that it is never okay to be not busy 2:56 would you expect any other human being to be productive at every moment. 3:03 how could such an expectation be fair or reasonable for any Human 3:09 the expectation to be busy at every moment is not realistic fair or for anyone 3:17 including you so far 3:23 in this meditation you have done productive thinking and you have been busy 3:28 now. I would like you to challenge yourself and spend the next two minutes being 3:35 not busy, in a moment. I'll begin timing so 3:40 that you can have two minutes of silent reflection 3:45 during the next two minutes of silence. I want you to allow thoughts to pass 3:51 and simply relax. do nothing 3:57 there is nothing you need to do just think about every thoughts arrive 4:02 just let the thoughts go emptying your mind completely 4:07 Let's Begin 4:15 *Calming Music* 5:12 *Calming Music* 5:18 *Calming Music* 6:10 The two minutes are up. What was it like to spend two minutes 6:17 not being busy? Reflect upon the last 6:22 few moments and acknowledge feelings that came up for you 6:27 this script will conclude with a brief progressive muscle relaxation 6:42 take a deep breath in and as you exhale allow your body to begin 6:50 to relax. Breathe slowly and naturally 6:55 raise your shoulders towards your you then let your shoulders 7:05 relax dropping into a comfortable and loose position. 7:10 feel yourself sinking into the surface you are on. 7:16 Allow your jaw to drop slightly. Letting the muscles of you face and 7:24 jaw become loose and relaxed. 7:29 Wiggle your toes once or twice and feel your feet and legs relaxing 7:37 gently open and close your hands once 7:47 and again and then relax your hand and 7:52 you arms 7:58 taking a deep breath in feeling the tension in your chest 8:03 and stomach has you hold that breathe and allow 8:08 your chest stomach and to relax as the breathe escapes slowly 8:13 allow the muscles in your back to relax from your neck 8:23 to your upper back. middle back 8:30 and lower back feeling your body relaxing 8:36 notice any areas of tension in your body relax those areas 8:46 now. take a few moments 8:51 just to enjoy feeling relaxed. 8:57 you do not need to be busy at every moment you are not 9:11 busy at every moment and that is okay. you 9:16 deserve time to relax. You deserve to be not busy 9:21 it is okay to relax. it is okay to be not busy. 9:30 you are more productive when you take time for relaxation. 9:38 you accomplish everything you need to 9:45 there is no need to push yourself to be superhuman. just simply 9:50 being is enough. It feels good 9:56 to relax. you can enjoy time of relaxation. 10:01 you can enjoy time of doing nothing and feel good about taking a few minutes 10:09 to do nothing at all. it is okay to rest and relax 10:14 it is essential to rest and relax 10:20 keep with you this feeling of relaxation now. as you reawaken your body to return 10:29 to the day. Wiggle your fingers and toes 10:34 open your hand and then close them and 10:42 open them once again roll your shoulders 10:47 forward and back feeling your muscles reawakening 10:52 lean your left ear toward your left shoulder return to 10:59 center. and move your right ear toward your right shoulder. 11:04 Then, return to neutral. Stretch a bit feeling 11:11 the energy flowing through your body. 11:17 take a deep breath reaching your arms above your head as you inhale and lowering 11:22 your arms out to the sides and down as you exhale 11:27 take one more breath in feeling fully alert as you exhale 11:32 return to your usual activities feeling calm and refreshed 11:38 *Calming Music* 11:52 This is a machine transcription and is subject to error. Apologizes in advance.